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Russian Dating: Men, Keep Your Promises

One of the biggest turn offs in men is unreliability. If you say that you will do something, do it!

From my experience, the guys that were too quick to promise were the same guys that ran in the opposite direction the quickest. Please, don’t use the word unless you absolutely mean it. Especially not in the beginning.

What to say if you want to tell a woman something special? Tell her you like her… She’s your favorite and only girl… You love her company…. Anything but promises when you don’t mean to keep them.
Promissing, you need to act (do, be) this way…

Finding a nice equal balance in a relationship is the key.

That’s your opinion?

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Common Russian Phrases: Encountering Problems

I need your help. – Mne nuzh’na ‘vasha ‘pomosh.
It’s an emergency. – Eto ’srochno.
I’m lost. – Ya zablu’dilsya.
I lost my bag. – Ya poter’yal ’sumku.
I lost my wallet. – Ya poter’yal moy port’mone.
I’m sick. – Ya ‘bolen.
I need a doctor. – Mne ‘nuzhen ‘doktor.
Can I use your phone? – ‘Mozhno pozvo’nit?
Leave me alone. – Os’tavte men’ya v po’koe.
Don’t touch me! – Ne ‘trogayte men’ya!
I’ll call the police. – Ya ‘vizovu po’litsiyu.
Stop! Thief! – Stoy! Vor!

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Disrespectful Behavior Towards Women

A man has very little chance of ever finding a good woman if he does not treat her with respect. He has to understand that he can still be masucline (which is a turn on) and still have respect for a woman (also a turn on).

Who do women consider disrespectful? Usually, rude, dishonest, not loyal, indifferent, ignorant men who expect women to give them everything and give nothing back in return.

Anna, 32 from Vitebsk, Belarus writes: “Women cannot stand to spend time with anyone who is full of himself, cannot speak without the use of profanity, thinks only of himself, thinks you are his personal slave, treats you like dirt, hits you for any reason.”

Inna, 29 from Nikolaev, Ukraine says: “I’d much rather love a poor man who treats me with respect than spend time with a rich man who is just filling space.”

What should you do to show respect for a woman? You just need to follow the universal manners of being a polite, strong gentleman.

How about treating her like you want to be treated?

Men’s Self Esteem Issues

You can’t love another if you don’t love yourself. Lack of confidence and inability to make decisions are the biggest turn-offs to any woman. But in “Western-Russian” relationships, the ability to make decisions is prevalent. How long should you be exchanging letters? A month? A year? If you like the woman you should display your confidence and take an action: visit her as soon as possible or let her come to you. Nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who can’t make up his mind.

Irina, 27 from Lugansk: “I want a man to show confidence. Online, …if he whines about his ‘hard’ life or he is not sure how to bring our relationship to the next step, I automatically mark him off. Yes, confidence is the biggest plus.”

Imagine the chip on the shoulders of such a guy in real life.

What you think of yourself affects everything you do in a day. If you have self-esteem, and you are genuine, then you are totally set.

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Dating Russian Girls: Needy Men

Each Russian woman and any woman in general, as an individual, has a different turn off. What might be attractive to one woman may not work for another as far as a “turn off” may be defined as a personal preference. However, there are some universal turn offs. Men searching for their Russian woman should pay attention to this.

One of the biggest turn offs is neediness, dependency on the emotional support of the woman. This kind of man gets upset when she has her own things to do. He wants tons of phone calls. He gets upset if she doesn’t have time to write five emails everyday, and generally not giving her room to breathe.

Here’s what Russian ladies say about this:
Olga, 22 from Moscow: “One of my biggest turn off is a needy man. When a man calls you 3 or more times a day. And when you ask him to stop he ignores you and still does it.”
Anastasia, 25 from Minsk: “I don’t like those men who sound too dependent… Please don’t send email, upon email, upon email! I can’t physically reply to all of them.”

Piece of advice: I would say probably the best thing that can make you attractive is keep your life busy. In short terms have a life. When you have a life you don’t have the time to need, because you already have. Women find that attractive just in itself. Be more like a friend than a man seeking acceptance. Most women will accept you for who you are if you don’t worry about messing up and just have a good time.

What’s your opinion?

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Basic Russian phrases

If you want to learn Common Russian Phrases you can do it on this blog. As there are a lot of long words in Russian, please pay attention to stressed syllables marked by ‘.

Yes – Da
O.K. – Ot’lichno
No / not – ‘Nyet
Thank you – Spa’sibo
You’re welcome – Dob’ro po’zhalovat.
Please – Po’zhaluysta
Hi – Pri’vet
Hello – ‘Zdravstvuy
Good morning – ‘Dobroe ‘utro
Good afternoon – ‘Dobriy ‘den
Good evening – ‘Dobriy ‘vecher
How are you? – ‘Kak de’la?

Ladies and Chocolate

You probably know that women adore chocolate. Is chocolate an aphrodisiac? There are people saying that chocolate is even preferred to sexual intimacy. As for me, I cant say if it’s fully right. I like chocolate but I chocolate cannot make me laugh, or call me on the phone.

I asked some women I know to respond to this. Here is what they said:

“I have gone chocolate crazy, it is an aphrodisiac.”
“Anything that causes extreme pleasure can be an aphrodisiac and not only chocolate.”
“Chocolate is nice but a helping hand is better.”
“Chocolate is the blessing for the celibate.”
“I eat chocolate but not instead of sex, no, no.”
“I generally prefer intimacy to chocolate.”

You see, tastes differ.

I liked the man’s response to the subject. Here is what Joshua C. said:
“It’s true that when the ladies eat chocolate it makes them feel excited, and in a “euphoric” state of mind. However, I find that saying chocolate is preferred to sexual intimacy is a little off-track. I find that when women are in a satisfying relationship with a man that treats them well they are open to sexual intimacy over chocolate, but in a world where we got men who don’t want to be the “pant-wearers” and where women have no choice but to lead they get the release of all the built up stress and tension from chocolate, or smoking. So in conclusion, Men, step up, give your lady that back rub, and let her melt and be her “ultimate-escape”.

What do you think? Do you agree?

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