Dating Advice – How to Keep Mr or Ms Right
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Does this describe you? When you meet a person you like, there is an initial attraction but that person doesn’t seem to stay interested very long. Both men and women who have been dating awhile will tell you (and maybe you’ve said the same yourself) that a person who is too available loses their attractiveness quickly. The problem is that even if you understand this, and neediness is part of your personality you might not see this trait in yourself. If you are having difficulty hanging on to dates you like you could be making some of these mistakes.
1. You want to spend all your time with your new found love. We all know that new love is exciting but expecting him or her to give up friends and activities to be with you 24/7 is pushing the limit. Relationships bloom when each person keeps their friends and hobbies. If you participate in this behaviour your new love may feel a little squeezed in and will soon squeeze you out.
2. You call too much. Constant calling borders on harassment and will leave your new love feeling that you don’t have much else in your life.
3. You are always available. You had a life before you met this person. Don’t give up your friends and activities to please someone else. It is especially important not to pretend to like things you don’t like or do things for this person that you have no intention of keeping up.
4. You tolerate bad behaviour. As Dr. Phil says, “we teach people how to treat us”. If you let your new person get away with bad behaviour in the beginning of the relationship, you can be sure it will only get worse. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking the behaviour will change or you can change them – it won’t happen.
5. You want to push the relationship. You tell your date right from the beginning that you are looking for marriage. This will surely scare anyone off if this statement is coupled with needy behaviour. It is okay to talk about your dreams and goals but don’t put that person into your life story before they know you.
By Sheila Dicks
Sheila Dicks is Dating and Style Coach who helps women find their soulmate and manifest the love relationship of their dreams. You can find her at http://www.sheiladicks.com and download “7 Most Common Dating Mistakes Women Make”.
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